[Socal] San Diego Flame

Wed Aug 22 12:25:52 CDT 2007

Hello all! 
  I tried to do some research before us LA/OC gals came up for San Diego pride. Not a lot of info on lesbian events and the Flame and this club that was across the street were the two that kept popping up. So we did Flame cause the line at the other place were majority male. The next morning we ate breakfast at a wonderful soul diner style decor cafe ..large portions and dirt cheap! I was impressed with the little eateries and stuff to do during the day, especially since I was sober! HA! 

  I am open to returning and will look out for some recommendations from the list when I do return so we dont make the same mistake again!

  Thanks all for your feedback! xoxo

  Stephanie, 31
  High Femme, OC

Tyler Zach <tyler_92879 at sbcglobal.net> wrote:
    That was your first mistake going to the Flame.
  However, I just moved to SD 7 months ago and have to disagree with you. Its an awesome city with a lot of potential of building a closer community.
  One bad experience shouldnt close your mind to other potentially good times in our city.
  If thats the case thats really too bad...

S Mullins <stephlmullins at sbcglobal.net> wrote:
        v\:* {behavior:url(#default#VML);}  o\:* {behavior:url(#default#VML);}  w\:* {behavior:url(#default#VML);}  .shape {behavior:url(#default#VML);}        st1\:*{behavior:url(#default#ieooui) }                I have to disagree. I don’t ever want to return to San Diego especially Club Flame ever again. Was treated the worst there during San Diego Pride. The bartender Monique refused to serve myself and my party. Rumor was she could tell we were out of town, excuse me isn’t that what Pride is all about..traveling. Anyhow, she told the other female not to serve us but she failed to tell the male bartender who served us with respect. I tipped him heavily and I complained to the manager. She was prejudiced and I didn’t appreciate her behavior. I have a mind to purchase the bar then fire her! 

  Anyhow not impressed with San Diego at all. That experience left a very bad taste in my mouth!

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  From: socal-bounces at butch-femme.com [mailto:socal-bounces at butch-femme.com] On Behalf Of Denise
Sent: Sunday, August 19, 2007 10:46 PM
To: socal at butch-femme.com
Subject: Re: [Socal] NEW---Butch/Femme/Transgender/FTM Social

  San Diego is about 2 hours away from me.....but I absolutely LOVE San Diego!!!  

Con Jordan <Tiamet at cox.net> wrote: 
    Just a question:  where is the Rubber Rose? Is the get together this month on the 25th?  Thank you. I am going to the Dallas Bash is anyone else?  Jordan (Butch 45 years old)

      ----- Original Message ----- 

    From: Tyler Zach 

    To: S.Cal List 

    Sent: Sunday, August 19, 2007 8:10 PM

    Subject: [Socal] NEW---Butch/Femme/Transgender/FTM Social

    You are most cordially invited to join a social group created exclusively for the local Butch / Femme community in San Diego & Southern, CA! Our events include monthly planning meetings at The Rubber Rose which is the LAST Saturday of every month at 6pm then a fun time out afterwards! An internet hub on yahoo and many fun evenings out together. Our group was founded to provide all who embrace Butch/Stone Butch/ Transgender Butch / FTM / Femme & Stone Femme identities with on-going opportunities to participate in the strengthening of both our community and our personal relationships while planning socials, events and gatherings. A fabulous way for both couples and singles to meet others! Since the group was founded July 24th 2007 it has grown tremendously & continues to grow daily!! SO PLEASE COME JOIN US! SDBFS CONTACT INFORMATION Tyler_N at tmail.com 

    OUR HOME ON THE WEB:

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